#dumphim photos & videos

1 hour ago

“Stop raising him, he’s not your son.” We caught up with feminist firebrand @florencegiven to chat pretty privilege, gatekeepers and #DumpHim . Hit up the link in bio for more. 📸 @eolhcsheppard

6 hours ago

When you talk about fighting for love the tendency is to give it a broad stroke encompassing anything and everything. Some are fighting to hold onto drama. Some will fight to hold to someone who doesn’t want to be in the relationship. Some are fighting for people they say are loving them in their own way but, if you have to justify and explain that their actions are love there’s a problem. Some will spiritually bypass and blame spiritual entities for choices that their partner made because they would rather blame unseen forces than have the difficult conversation that means they have to unpack some issues. Question: Why is it always the women who are consistently ‘fighting for love’ who is putting them in this position where they feel like they have to fight? Why are we romanticising this and calling it love?

13 hours ago

SIGNS of the TIMES::!!

17 hours ago

I have two of these pieces listed on #Etsy ! Who else loves a plot twist? 😄😇

18 hours ago

I’m just gonna put this here and say “dump your personal trainer or fitness program and roll on over to me.” It’s simple, it’s easy. They aren’t invested in you like I am. 😉 Don’t miss out on good treatment. See results with me, don’t even waste your money 💴 on em. #cockymuch #senseofhumour : : : : : #thebesttrainer #yourfavoritecoach #fullofmyself #fitnesstrainer #nowhiring #neednewclients #getfitwithme #instabest #bestofthebest #confidence #seeresultswithme #bigdripfitness #dumphim #dumpher #dumpthem #thebestyoueverhad #leavethemalone #fitfam #onlinefitness #instafitness

18 hours ago

It’s like that Mucinex booger! #teamheather #noboogers #dumphim #dumptrump

23 hours ago

🗣It's not everyday try to fix a man. Sometimes just #DumpHim ! We've all been there at one time or another. You meet a guy, he's cute, he's funny, the dick is crafted by angels...but there is so much else wrong with him that he has now become your personal project. So you spend countless days/months/years trying to help him get his shit together, because you think he has 'potential'. And you're not wrong -most people do, but what you need to understand is that not everyone will fulfill theirs, no matter how much you assist them. How many times have you played therapist/stylist/teacher/bank/chef/maid/priestess for a man who drains you and doesn't replenish you sufficiently? You can do bad all by yourself, bitch. Plis, suffering is not by force. People are who they are. What they are not, is your expectations of them. If you have a vision for your love life (or life in general ), it makes more sense to align yourself with those who are on the same vibration as you, rather than trying to push those who are not, to be who you want them to be. It's okay to walk away from situations and people that do not serve you, bitch. It does not make you a bad person to choose yourself. You deserve to give yourself the love and commitment that you give to others. - Pre-order your new limited edition Dump Him 🦄'Unicorn Heaux'🦄 tops from SHAKIRASCOTT.COM/MERCH (link in bio ). Sale ends 20th July 2020


mid-week reminder


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Real talk!


SHE'S BACK ON BBC Y'ALL 🙌🏾🎙 (➡️🔊 ) I spoke to @memontymonts about sex and dating as a plus size black woman for the @bbcsounds podcast, #NoCountryForYoungWomen . It all started out so innocently...and then we got into kink and it was hellbound from there 🤣 Monty asked me what my most frequently asked questions from you guys is, and I said "How to be confident in the bedroom." My top tip for this is to start with how you see yourself. It's not always as easy as saying 'Heaux, love yo' fuckin' self!' because taking a huge bite of self love is not easy for everyone to swallow. I recommend breaking it down into small, easy bites. Look at yourself in the mirror. Point out 1 thing that you like about your body, for example, yo eyes, yo hurr, yo tiddies...whatever you like about yourself, LIKE IT TO THE FULLEST EXTENT! Focus on that. Celebrate it. Affirm how GAWJUS that 1 feature is. Next time, find another feature that you like. Hype it up the same way. Now there are 2 things you like. Next time, add another...and continue like that. By identifying separate features that you like about yourself, what eventually happens is that you notice more and more things that you like. In the end, this simple practice will help you learn to love all of you. It's the small details that make a masterpiece, and bitch, you are ART! THE TATE GALLERY COULD NEVAH! So show yourself some love right the fuck now. ➡️Leave a 👩🏾‍🎨 in the comments because you are a work of art.⬅️ Thank you again to No Country For Young Women for having me. I had so much fun xx - DON'T FORGET TO PRE-ORDER YOUR LIMITED EDITION #DUMPHIM 'UNICORN HEAUX'🦄 TOPS AT SHAKIRASCOTT.COM/MERCH. SALE ENDS 20TH JULY 2020.


True enough. Don’t get revenge on an ex by cussing him out, messing up his clothes, etc. get revenge by just getting better and getting a better guy than him, I believe in you, now go make me proud and level up. ☀️🌻 😃

2 days ago

I struggle with women being pitted against each other and blamed at every turn when men aren’t held to higher standards. I was having a conversation on Face Book live with a friend on Sunday. We were discussing Sisterhood Over Competition. My single friend whom I’ve known since I was aged 6 brought up the thread of married women calling single women a threat and naturally being a subject on sisterhood over competition we shut this down. Ladies ask yourself who does this benefit? Who gets to not be accountable and can carry on with his wayward behaviour while you are blaming each other? And those relationship coaches that find ways to thread reasons why it’s your fault 😩 I can’t. If it’s a man their patriarchy is coming through 👀 and if it’s a woman her internalised self hatred and patriarchy is showing. I'll be the first to say, if a sister knowingly approaches a married man she is wrong and in the same breath, if the married man responds to these advances by encouraging it instead of shutting it down, he too is wrong. I take issue with shaming and blaming women for men who are out of integrity and side step accountability. A woman who knows who she is and knows her worth never knowingly entertains a married man. She has no time for this mess. She is focussed on her future and knows that when she starts a relationship she wants it to be on a clean and solid foundation. A man who knows who he is and wants to continue investing in his relationship, marriage and family doesn’t approach anyone to see what he can get away with. He has no time for that. He is focussed on what he has and his future. Let’s stop infantilising men as if they don’t know right from wrong because they do. They are not animals they can control themselves.

2 days ago

#dumphim #tarot

2 days ago

Also in my shop #dumphim #depop #cuteearrings #handmadejewelry

2 days ago

Anyone else ever feel this way? Thanks for having our back, Spirits! ⚡️🌈👻 #chango #fuckboymemes #memes #meme #memes 😂 #witchmemes #orishas #light #witch #witchesofinstagram #witchy #dumphim #loveyourself #nope #selflove #signs #sign

2 days ago

Yes I'm sure. ⁠⠀⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I’m deleting all the feelings of romance and giving that attention to myself.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Forgiving you and myself so I can 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 good about myself again. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ And 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 the courage to move on from you and I 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 I’m going to be alright.⁣⁣ ⁣ Free download in the link of our bio ❤️⁣ ⁣⁣

2 days ago

join me on IG live tomorrow 7/7 at 7pm EST to hear me play tunes & raise $$ for @blackvotersmtr ! also plz click the link in my bio to pre-save my new single ♥️ . . . . . . . . #onlychild #indie #indieartist #indiepop #funnysongs #iglivestream #livestreamconcert #musician #dumphim #sarahdooley #sarahdooleymusic #funnypop #fundraiser #fundraiserconcert

3 days ago

If there’s one thing I learned from Latin America... life is one big everlasting dance. Don’t you ever let anyone stop you from shining your brightness. Spirit will guide you into your own arms 💃🏻 I broke up with my first boyfriend when I was 12 after three years because he didn’t want to dance with me 😂 read more in my stories today. My 12 year old self will marry herself. #lovelife #singlemomlife #cumbiadera #bailongo #party #dancedancedance #luisenrique #yonoseman ̃ana #latinmusic #latindance #salsa #shakeitoff #dumphim


Top photos & videos on #dumphim

Sep 2019

“Stop raising him, he’s not your son” - @florencegiven 💫 IM HERE FOR THIS. #dumphim #selflove #activist #illustration #feminism #iweigh #florencegiven

Aug 2019

Stop raising him, he is not your son. Inspired by the queen @florencegiven

Sep 2019

🎨 by⁣ @florencegiven There are people in this world that would cover your actual RENT just to have dinner in your fantastic presence, but you're too busy settling for the 'potential' in your boyfriend who moans about doing the dishes, talks to you like shit, sits around all day and refuses to get a job? STOP RAISING HIM, HE'S NOT YOUR SON. You deserve better, the love you want and deserve EXISTS. By dating them you're neglecting yourself - put the energy you're using to grow someone else's 'potential' into your own life. The glow-up will be so hideously fantastic you won't even recognise yourself, trust me. Send him back to his mum's #DumpHim ⁠ ⁠ ⁠ Tag #womenofillustration for a chance to be featured or become a Patron for a paid promo.⁣ Link in bio⁣⁠ ⁠ ⁠ #art #artist #artwork #illustration #illustrator #illustracion #femaleillustrator #femaleartist #womanartist #femaleartists #womenartists #womeninthearts #womenartist #womenart #womeninart #lettering #handlettering #type #typography #handmadefont #handlettered #letters #handtype #losethedeadweight #dontplayyourself #payattention #idontknowwhoneedstohearthisbut #straightfacts

Apr 2020

Would you tell her or ignore it 🤔 . Follow 👉🏻 @thatsmakeuppage Follow 👉🏻 @thatsmakeuppage . . . (ignore tags ) #dump #dumped #girl #girls #girlproblems #mademyday #dumphim #boyfriend

6 days ago


Sep 2019

TW: non-consensual sex, rape, relationship abuse. “When I was 15 I was dating an 18 year old who I’d met through friends. We both lost our virginities to each other, but my first time with him wasn’t consensual. I was drunk (off of booze he’d bought me ) and I said no repeatedly because we didn’t have a condom. He threw a strop and wouldn’t talk to me and I was so foolishly in love and didn’t want to break up over something that seemed so simple at the time that I gave in. There were several times during our relationship that I said no and he pressured me into sleeping with him or giving him head. When we broke up he told me he hadn’t cared about me at all. It took me several months to come to terms with what had happened, and several more to start talking about it. Whenever I think about it I start thinking that maybe it was my fault, or “it’s not proper rape because I agreed” and that my experience isn’t as important as people who’ve had worse experiences. Several of our mutual friends still talk to him, even after I’ve told them and many have said that it doesn’t count because I allowed myself to be pressured. To anyone who’s in my situation, you are not to blame. Don’t let those thoughts bring you down, it wasn’t your fault. 🖤”- Morgan. As always, send your stories to catscallingback @gmail .com or DM me. • • • • #ipadproart #illustration #illustratorsofinstagram #womenwhodraw #procreate #procreateart #comic #relationship #emotionalabuse #girlpower #girlgang #couples #government #trash #femaleempowerment #womenempoweringwomen #womenempowerment #feminist #trauma #gaslighting #catscallingback #girlssupportgirls #notyourbaby #rapevictim #rapesurvivor #survivor #dumphim

Sep 2019

It must be so tough for you to be shitty :( #dumphim #samanthajones #singlegirl #boybye #fightthepatriarchy #exboyfriends #thankyounext